Supply House Times logo Supply House Times
search
cart
facebook instagram twitter linkedin youtube
  • Sign In
  • Create Account
  • Sign Out
  • My Account
Supply House Times logo Supply House Times
  • NEWS
    • ASA NEWS
    • Company News
  • PRODUCTS
    • Interactive Spotlights
  • COLUMNS
    • Natalie Forster: From the Editor
    • Alicia Branham: Marketing Matters
    • Brad Williams: Succession Planning
    • Melissa Rasico: Luxury Plumbing Lounge
    • Letter from ASA President
    • Guest Columnists
    • Safety Columnists
  • MARKETS
    • Codes & Legislation
    • Heating & Cooling
    • Industrial PVF
    • Plumbing
    • Radiant & Hydronics
    • Solar Thermal | Geothermal
    • Technology
    • Women in Industry
  • BATH & KITCHEN PRO
    • Bath & Kitchen News
    • Bath & Kitchen Products
  • SPECIAL EDITIONS
    • B.I.G. Book Directory
    • Premier 150
    • Rep Locator Directory
  • MEDIA
    • Podcasts
    • Videos
    • eBooks
    • Webinars
  • RESOURCES
    • Radiant Comfort Report
    • Industry Calendar
    • Industry Links
    • Custom Content & Marketing Services
    • Market Research
    • Supply House Times Store
  • EMAG
    • EMAGAZINE
    • ARCHIVE ISSUES
    • CONTACT
    • ADVERTISE
  • SIGN UP!
Bath and Kitchen ProColumnistsPlumbingIndustrial PVFBath & Kitchen News

The four social styles in sales

Knowing one’s social-style behavior is critical for understanding a person’s communication and decision-making process.

By Scott Ritchey
The four social styles in sales
October 26, 2016

In the 1967 prison drama film “Cool Hand Luke,” the now infamous and often-used quote, “What we have here is the failure to communicate” was born.

The prison warden “Captain,” says the quote after Luke is badly beaten by the prison guards for failing to follow the prison protocol of a chain gang. It is the scene that defines the rules for engagement that Luke must follow or not.

Now you may be asking yourself what does this have to do with a column about building top-performing sales teams? The answer is plenty. Failure to communicate is the death nail of many presentations to prospective clients. Presentations are not only the words used but also the communication style in which they are delivered.

This is a problematic area for many salespeople. Ask yourself, “What do I know about social-style behavior?” Exactly. Knowing one’s social-style behavior is critical for understanding a person’s communication and decision-making process. The lack of understanding is why many good ideas or solutions never have a chance to succeed.

Social-style theory is based on work originated by David Merrill, who used factor analysis to identify two scales, assertiveness and responsiveness. This results in a model that has four quadrants which identify the four social styles. These social styles are “Driving,” “Expressive,” “Amiable” and “Analytical.” Social styles as a psychometric instrument help people to better understand and work with others by respecting the individual’s basic decision-making and control needs. Simply put, social style is the behavior we exhibit when interacting with others and is key in developing relationships.

“Driving” individuals are perceived as strong-willed and more emotionally controlled while “Expressivists” are described as outgoing and more dramatic. “Amiables” are easy-going and supportive where “Analyticals” are described as serious and more exacting. To effectively communicate with each style, we must understand what is important to each style type.

Drivers are highly competitive people who need to win. They seek to control the setting or conversation and are fast-acting and fast-paced with their speech. They are results-oriented and decisive people who are extremely task-focused. To win them over, presentations must be fast-paced with options giving them control over the decision process and the presentations must demonstrate an advantage over their competition, giving them the best chance to win.

Expressivists are very creative and intuitive people who are outgoing and enthusiastic. They are great motivators and quite persuasive. Their biggest fear is being rejected or left behind. To win them over, presentations must show you are interested in them and their success from an emotional level. Expressivists want the latest and greatest solutions if everyone else is doing it because they do not want to be left out. Presentations need to be delivered enthusiastically with the end result showing the expressivist how good he or she will look for making the decision.

Amiable people are friendly and dislike conflict and risk-taking. They are fearful of change and uncertainty. Therefore, their decision-making is slow and involves team consensus. Presentations should include key advisors to the amiable leader and demonstrate that change is good and the risk is low to make that change. The presentation style should be relaxed and friendly, no tension.

Analytical people like to focus on tasks more than people. They value fact over opinion and want to be sure they are right in their decisions, ensuring a decision-making process that is slow and cautious. Presentations must be factual with support documentation to back it up. Presentations must be given in an organized and structured manner.

Since selling is a relationship business, top-performing sales teams recognize they must be chameleon-like in their communication skills and readily adapt to the social style of their audience. Mastery of social-style recognition will lead to higher influence rates for your sales team. Never let your team hear, “What we have here is a failure to communicate.”

KEYWORDS: business management distribution PHCP Distributors

Share This Story

Looking for a reprint of this article?
From high-res PDFs to custom plaques, order your copy today!

Supply House Times contributing writer. 

Recommended Content

JOIN TODAY
to unlock your recommendations.

Already have an account? Sign In

  • Stock financial index show successful investment on property business and construction industry with graph and chart for presentation and report background.

    2025 predictions: Twelve trends supply houses should know

    As 2024 ends, I’ll review last year’s predictions and...
    Brad Williams: Succession Planning
    By: Brad Williams
  • Background of aerial view of Industrial container port part of shipping in nighttime with a blue overlay.

    2025 Next Gen ALL-STARS: Top 20 Under 40 PHCP-PVF Professionals

    The future of the PHCP-PVF industry is being shaped by a...
    Market Sectors
    By: Natalie Forster
  • Premier 150: The top PHCP-PVF Distributors of 2026

    Premier 150: The Top PHCP-PVF Distributors of 2026

    Combined revenue across this year’s Premier 150 once...
    Market Sectors
    By: Natalie Forster
Manage My Account
  • eMagazine
  • Newsletters
  • Manage My Preferences
  • Online Registration
  • Subscription Customer Service

More Videos

Popular Stories

Rob Micklus, Chris DellaSala, John McKeown and Bob DellaSala

2026 Manufacturers Rep of the Year: Keystone Sales & Associates

Price Increase Image

PHCP-PVF Price Increases: June 2026

Commercial outlook tech looking at pipes

Commercial Market Outlook: Retrofit Projects Lead the Way

2026 Premier Rankings

Events

December 30, 2030

Webinar Sponsorship Information

For webinar sponsorship information, visit www.bnpevents.com/webinars or email webinars@bnpmedia.com.

View All Submit An Event

Poll

Identifying Daily Time Loss Areas for Your Team

Where does your team lose the most time each day?
View Results Poll Archive

Products

The Water Came To A Stop

The Water Came To A Stop

See More Products

Download the FREE 2025 Water Conservation, Quality & Safety eBook

Download the Fifth annual Bath & Kitchen Pro eBook

Related Articles

  • ASA Q1 pulse

    ASA distributors report steep increase in sales compared to one year ago

    See More
  • 2025 Three-month report press release.jpg

    AD reports huge jump in member sales through three months of 2025

    See More
  • Three Month Report Press Release Image.jpg

    AD reports record sales in the first three months of 2024

    See More

Related Directories

  • InSinkErator

    InSinkErator, is the world's largest manufacturer of garbage disposals and instant hot water dispensers for home and commercial use. Over 85 years ago, InSinkErator revolutionized the way food waste was discarded in the kitchen, and it continues to be a category leader.
×

Stay in the know on the latest PHCP-PVF industry trends.

Get tailored content delivered your way.

JOIN TODAY!
  • RESOURCES
    • Advertise
    • Contact Us
    • Directories
    • Store
    • Want More
    • Plumbing & Mechanical
  • SIGN UP TODAY
    • Create Account
    • eMagazine
    • Newsletter
    • Customer Service
    • Manage Preferences
  • SERVICES
    • Marketing Services
    • Reprints
    • Market Research
    • List Rental
    • Survey/Respondent Access
  • STAY CONNECTED
    • LinkedIn
    • Facebook
    • Instagram
    • YouTube
    • X (Twitter)
  • PRIVACY
    • PRIVACY POLICY
    • TERMS & CONDITIONS
    • DO NOT SELL MY PERSONAL INFORMATION
    • PRIVACY REQUEST
    • ACCESSIBILITY

Copyright ©2026. All Rights Reserved BNP Media, Inc. and BNP Media II, LLC.

Design, CMS, Hosting & Web Development :: ePublishing